Excellent observations and analyses. True for many of us "guys" who are perhaps atypical of the general male dominating populace. Really, what does it mean to be strong? Maybe better to ask, what does it mean to be good-hearted, well-intentioned, honest and transparent without the need to impress others? Being ourselves as men - thoughtful, sensitive, caring, compassionate, nurturing- I consider good qualities in both men and women. Maybe "manly" gets a bad rap? One of my observations is that a lot of men stopped evolving around high school age and are trapped in that mind-set of the macho aggressive personality. Just a couple of thoughts. There's much more worth exploring farther and deeper. Where in the world did that phrase "real men don't each quiche" originate? Probably from the book by Bruce Fierstein by the same title, which is a humor laden look at the stereotypical male persona. I think there's some kind of sequel that I don't remember.
Excellent observations and analyses. True for many of us "guys" who are perhaps atypical of the general male dominating populace. Really, what does it mean to be strong? Maybe better to ask, what does it mean to be good-hearted, well-intentioned, honest and transparent without the need to impress others? Being ourselves as men - thoughtful, sensitive, caring, compassionate, nurturing- I consider good qualities in both men and women. Maybe "manly" gets a bad rap? One of my observations is that a lot of men stopped evolving around high school age and are trapped in that mind-set of the macho aggressive personality. Just a couple of thoughts. There's much more worth exploring farther and deeper. Where in the world did that phrase "real men don't each quiche" originate? Probably from the book by Bruce Fierstein by the same title, which is a humor laden look at the stereotypical male persona. I think there's some kind of sequel that I don't remember.
I think we tend to equate "strength" with aggression, not realizing or accepting that it takes more courage to be vulnerable and open.
I hadn't heard of that book title or phrase, but it made me chuckle and I get the point. By the way, I've always loved quiche!
Thanks for your comment!
I have several good male friends, one of whom works with groups of men, and he's just started a Substack here that you might enjoy checking:
https://goodmenworksinprogress.substack.com